When we are passive aggressive, oblique or say words to hurt - it only makes a bad situation worse. You must speak or your feelings will fester. Do speak and do it with honor and integrity. It's ok to tell someone, you hurt my feelings. Tell them from love and kindness - as a way for them to learn more about you. Take your time. If you react then venom will come from you but, if you wait you might find one of two things. That is wasn't worth getting into or that you are angry about something completely different. Productive conversations can then take place.
Say to yourself: I will share my feeling with love, honor and integrity.
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