Fear

Fear can protect and it can paralyze. Most often it is the later.

We constantly make up reasons to be fearful but, they are so rarely based in reality – our perception and beliefs are too strong.Make a list of your fears and see how often they have ever come true.

Perhaps it’s time to remove some fears that keep you from living life and excelling at what you most desire.Fear is a wasted excuse…lessen it’s power.

Affirmation – say: I will use fear wisely and with an open mind.

Payoff in wallowing?

What benefit do you get in wallowing in self pity?  Attention?  Comfort in the familiar?  Company from others who wallow, too?  Excuse to not change?  Excuse to not do the work you need to do to feel better?  You are strong and can do whatever it is that you need to do!  You can also ask for help.  You don't have to be alone.  Family and friends can and will help!

What are you waiting for???

Why wait??? Go for it! I know you can do it! Why are you resisting??? What is holding your back? Is it real or is it an excuse??? There are people out there with tougher challenges yet, they are going for it. Why not you???